Our Open Discussions address specific topics pertaining to living with cancer. Participants share and learn from one another. They also learn that they are not alone.

Open Discussions are not educational forums with presentations by doctors or other experts. They’re a place where people come together to discuss a specific challenge they have in common as a result of their experiences. Read this article about the benefits of Open Discussions.

Some Open Discussions are scheduled for a single session. Others are scheduled for multiple sessions during the year and you can attend as many sessions as you’d like.

Please view this page often to check for new sessions as we add them throughout the year. You can also visit our calendar.

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It’s Okay to Grieve, Let’s Talk: An Open Discussion for Men Living With Loss

WHEN: Tuesday, June 17, 7-8 PM (NY time)
WHERE: Zoom video conference

Open to men nationwide who have lost a spouse or partner to breast, ovarian, or other gynecological cancer. Pre-registration is required. Must register no later than 5 pm (NY time) Monday, June 17. To register, call Support Connection, 914-962-6402 or 800-532-4290.

It is never possible to prepare yourself for the loss of a spouse or partner. Learning how to cope with the grief and the impact on your life is hard to do alone. Speaking with others who have also been through it is an excellent way to learn and feel less alone.

This program is open to all men who have experienced loss, regardless of how much time has gone by. Our facilitator will lead the discussion which will include the following topics:

• There is no one way to grieve: no right way, and no wrong way.
• Dealing with unexpected “trigger points” and reminders.
• Coping with loneliness.
• Giving yourself permission to move forward.

Discussion Leaders: Alan Bandes and Alan Forst are volunteer facilitators who have personally experienced the loss of their beloved wives to breast cancer.

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For Men Only, Let’s Talk: An Open Discussion For Men Living With A Spouse Or Partner Going Through Cancer

WHEN: Tuesday, May 13, 7 – 8 PM (NY time)
WHERE: Zoom video conference

Open to men nationwide who have a spouse or partner living with breast, ovarian or gynecological cancer. Pre-registration is required. Must register no later than 5 pm (NY time) Monday May 12. To register, call Support Connection, 914-962-6402 or 800-532-4290.

It may be your spouse or partner who has been diagnosed with cancer, but it also affects you, as well as your family. You want to help and be supportive, but it’s not always easy to know how. Speaking with others who are in the same situation is an excellent way to learn, get ideas, and feel less alone.

This program is open to all men who have a spouse or partner dealing with breast, ovarian or gynecological cancer, at any stage from diagnosis, through treatment and beyond. Our facilitator will lead the discussion which will include following topics:

• What it’s like to see your spouse or partner go through cancer, and how it affects you.
• How cancer can impact you and your spouse or partner, your relationship and your family.
• Coping strategies for you, your spouse or partner, and your family.
• Giving yourself permission to take care of your own needs at the same time as you support your loved one.

The open discussion format provides a safe and supportive venue to talk with others coping with similar challenges. Share concerns, experiences and information with others who have been there too.

DISCUSSION LEADER: David Tartaglia is a volunteer facilitator who has personally experienced coping with his own wife’s breast cancer journey.